you might be too focused on the “transition” part of this. someone could be translesbian for as simple a reason as they feel like they are like one, but they aren’t. or they were in a past life. i do think that it can be put on in an unhealthy way, but that doesn’t mean no one should use them. a lot of transids are like this. sometimes you put on a label that was bad for you or reflected unhealthy mindset.

shiro isn’t quite sure how common it is, but… none of our system members… consider our human’s family as our… family members, or related to us… not at all. we still are very much… incestophiles, in general but mainly towards brothers. it can be… a past life thing, or fufilled in-system… sometimes outside with a trusted being we see as related…

not sure, but definitely some kind of association in general. we get these a lot

well said. some of us resonate as well. the rqc on tumblr is way too discourse poisoned…

tsu: i like to think good little girl from adventure time has childxadult vibes

tsu: yeah we really get it too… idk why antis have to like things this way it’s. idk boring??? pretty much all of our past lives would be even worse in their eyes tho, and tbh i’m okay with it, we mostly block out the fandom opinions from our sources these days. you guys should be free, doesn’t make you any less real or valid, if anything you’re unique and you sound pretty cool to me. we enjoy our past lives alot more now and i hope you can too sometime, you define yourself and not the fans x3

eighth wonder by lemon demon just gives me the radqueer vibes. also modify by lemon demon since it’s sort of about radical acceptance of body modification. “do what you want with you” like he says.

abby: can’t really think of anything but i like monsters in general so there’s probably a bit i have a crush on, also dogday is super cute so good taste

i don’t think a lot of my attractions are too common. I’d be here all day listing absolutely everything, but the most prominent one is koyomi araragi. we’ve considered ourselves to be married to him from a young age. it really doesn’t seem like anyone sees what i see in him, but that’s alright. i never really minded the hate. but he was always there for me, even when i thought i should move on. never worked out. I’m very glad.

(i also have outer partners such as malt & mei who influence my ficto attractions.)

I’m definitely really close if not just already there. i was on the opposite end of the spectrum not that long ago too… so i believe in you all. I’m very sure you’ll get there. don’t beat yourselves up too much if you progress slowly at times.

i always thought she was adorable. i would.

i was born right in the middle of that stuff actually, I’m sure i would have identified as transteen/permateen when we were that little physically… it’s a time that i have a lot of nostalgia for, yeah

rama: being a sadist is something to be proud of in my opinion… the world needs sadists because all the pain lovers, dark fiction lovers, lovers of gruesome things, biastophiles, hybristophiles, ect need someone who is brave enough to give them gratification or share interest you know? but also i think more people would benefit from befriending them more not even gonna lie, it’s nice to think about how beings can be attracted to that stuff they might not even consider

this is the reason why i left the plural community as a whole recently… there is quite literally no good reason to say things like ‘ageplaying is fine but being sexual in a little mindset is bad’. i was very sexual as a kid and that should be respected regardless of what happened to me (or anyone else) those things meant a lot to me and they still do…

;_; we’re really insanely glad we met you here too. I’m glad you can finally kind of have a place around here. i hope it persists for you all. you really do deserve it. i think everyone does.

smash. ever since i first got into this i adored her personality

have you looked into tulpamancy and the tulpamancy community? i can’t say i would encourage you to chat with them face to face, since it’s kind of insufferable sometimes, but just absorbing their content and their methods and whatnot. they also tend to offer rather freeing perspectives. i myself am very deep into the philosophy of being plural and how people can be more free in their experiences so perhaps i could offer you some advice…

one thing you could try, is speaking to spirits or spiritual presences, just sort of guide it with your intention. it’s okay if they don’t respond at first, maybe just try to find a way to communicate. i find if i talk to things, after a while, they seem to stay in my mind, even for just a little bit.

another thing I’m thinking about is that you could potentially introject the concept of a headmate like this, or something among those lines. I’m not entirely sure how those things work for you all, though.

or perhaps make up lore for yourselves? make up an inner world and some sort of spiritual lore to fit it? you sort of have freedom with those types of things.

feel free to ask more or bring up other points and the like. I’m sort of scattered right now.

I’m definitely fucking 16yr steven… maybe marry 13yr steven and kill pink steven

one distinction I’ve managed to make is the autism antisocial and how it’s different from the schizo antisocial. my autism makes it so I’m more prone to go do my own things, away from anyone else, and with schizophrenia it makes it hard for me to feel anything from social interactions, so i tend to have very long periods of being alone and etc. schizophrenia also seems to complicate a lot of things in my social perception in general…

this happens every time. every time.