This is awesome. Anyways, fun question: What other parts of your identity affect your biastophilia? Do you have another paraphilia inherently tied to this one? Any other asexual or aspecs with this? Are you just biasto, just auto-biasto, or both? Tell me the things! (Try to keep it mildly sfw/chill or ‘educational’ in a sense. :)
While I do sometimes have my biastophilia and MAPness intersect like a lot of people would sterotypically think it is quite rare. I see it intersect with my meso and gerantophilia a lot tho. I also see it intersect with my traumaphilia bc I find myself more attracted to the after affects and trauma it would leave the person with than the actual act itself. I’ve seen other biastos talk about unrealistic fantasy of the person starting to enjoy it but that is a turn off for me, I prefer the suffering. I am both autobiasto and regular biasto, I find basically all my paraphilias are both.
Ohhh I like you now!!! Enjoyment is a huge turn off, but to be clear I don’t include the trauma response of “I deserve this” to be enjoyment, and I like that part. I am also a huge traumaphile (auto and non-auto) but only a biastophile (not an autobiastophile). I have much more of a thing for the mental affects and corruption that the acts themselves.
I suppose all of my paraphilias exist as cross sections, that can overlap but don’t necessarily always do, it depends on what I feel like fantasizing about. A couple examples of kinks I like to use alongside biasto would be hebe, meso, exhibitionism, sadism, masochism, abuse, and filth.
When it comes to how my biastophilia is, I guess I’m a bit of an odd one. The classic unequivocal depiction of rape does in fact not interest me, it actually turns me off. What I like is public groping, intention of rape from the abuser, coercion, extortion, etc. with the victim either enjoying it or enjoying in due time. Regarding any trauma they might develop from it, I’d want them to develop unhealthy coping mechanisms, more sex, alcohol, unhinged spiraling, etc. From what I’ve seen dub-con falls under biasto, but if anyone knows a better paraphilia to cover this, please do let me know. And much like cutekowala, I am also interested in both the biasto and autobiasto perspective. I exclusively use people that are aesthetically attractive to me to fantasize about, which in turn in the fantasy are sexually attracted to each other.
Dubcon is very valid of you (and yes it fits well under biasto, i think a specific dubcon label would almost be under the umbrella more so). This was cool to read, thank you.
Oh I also forgot to include that I am almost exclusive about dubcon. I don’t find either fully nonconsensual or fully consensual dynamics very appealing at all.
