Hi!! I’m having a lot of trouble because since it’s pride month, I’ve been browsing the aroace tags on tumblr. But there’s a LOT of discourse and a lot of aros who aren’t romance repulsed seem to be shoved out… and it makes me feel like I’m not aroace enough? Because I love Alastor and my partner sys… Because I’m in a romantic relationship…

I feel really, really bad… And I don’t really know what to do… Would it be bad for me to take TransAroace (or even just transaro) to cope with feeling inadequate for the community?

I’ve been on the verge of tears because of this all day.

  • Malt Marzipan
    2·
    7 months ago

    It’s valid to be a transid for any reason, coping or otherwise. In your case I don’t think tumblr is good for you though, or, anyone really. You should come to Oddballs, much more friendly :3

    • Yui KomoriOP
      3·
      7 months ago

      I am on Oddballs, actually! I’ve been trying to distance myself from Tumblr, recently.

    • KittenEnglish
      2·
      7 months ago

      What’s Oddballs? This is my first time hearing it.

      • Malt Marzipan
        2·
        6 months ago

        An instance ran by Ezra who is one of the greatest beings ever (bias), very chill and open to all paras, artists and fandoms :3