Helllooo… I’m new here… For my introduction, I’m unfortunately “too old” to be desired now from what i’ve been told … (14, turning 15 in a few months) I’ve always been into big age gaps, for some reason. My first ever relationship was with a 22 year old, when I was 13 not long ago. I tend to be shamed for preferring affection from an older person, and often called immature, people say I don’t know what i’m talking about but i’ve honestly given up with kids my age. I know I’m not supposed to be seeking relationships as of now, but I feel the urge to offer someone a reason as to why I’m not just a horny teenager.
Awkward intro done…!! hope you’re all having a good day <3
Welcome! There’s nothing to be ashamed about for seeking out relationships with older people, just as I don’t think there’s anything wrong with seeking relationships with younger people. I’m sorry that you were told you’re getting “too old” by someone, but I guarantee there are plenty of people who think 15 is a very desirable age.
Putting all that aside, the main key is that you should be happy with yourself and who you are, and if you’re going to be in a relationship, make sure that they care for you the same way you care for them. If it’s just a relationship based on passion that you both don’t plan to keep going forever, that’s fine, but make sure you both communicate that with each other. If you want the relationship to be more romantic and last much longer, make sure both of you are on board with that, too.
I hope we can all find relationships like that.