I didn’t find a Transharm(ed/ful) community, so I went ahead and made one! (I hope it’s not unwelcome.) I’d love to meet more transharm(ed/ful) people and give them a space where they can be themselves.

We can share tips on consensual and/or safe transitioning, as well! (and that’s welcome!)

No Transharm(ed/ful) IDs are unwelcome here! Just as long as everyone follows the rules, all is fine!

  • Yui KomoriOPM
    3·
    7 months ago

    I can understand that!

    For me, a lot of my transIDs are coping mechanisms for things I’ve gone through, or things that I wish would have happened to make people take me more seriously as a survivor of horrific abuse. I was tortured for years, but subtly so, to an extent I don’t have a lot of scars from abuse because the torture was mostly physical exertion or sleep deprivation and drinking/drugs throughout my childhood. Even though I went through RAMCOA/OEA, I never feel like it was “severe enough” to be a survivor of such.

    Some are designated to my partners, as well, but those are less so.

    So I understand having “weird” TransIDs or “weird” past lives, as I was definitely not human in a past life.

    • CoomerFemboyEnglish
      1·
      7 months ago

      Thanks for helping me understand more, and very interesting, sorry that you went through what you have. Best wishes