I didn’t find a Transharm(ed/ful) community, so I went ahead and made one! (I hope it’s not unwelcome.) I’d love to meet more transharm(ed/ful) people and give them a space where they can be themselves.
We can share tips on consensual and/or safe transitioning, as well! (and that’s welcome!)
No Transharm(ed/ful) IDs are unwelcome here! Just as long as everyone follows the rules, all is fine!
What is Transharm?
Transharm is a broad term for those who are Transharmed, Transtrauma, Transdeath, Transharmful, and/or Transhateful.
From the TransID.org page:
Transharmed IDs - Transharmed is an umbrella term for those who feel as though some kind of harm should or should have come to them in some way. This can feeling like one should be a victim of abuse, crime, assault, or any other kind of negative experience.
Transharmed - Those who desire to be harmed in some way or to be some form of victim to a crime or abuse. This identity does not inherently mean one wants these things. It can be used if one had something happen in a past life or in source, among other things.
Transtrauma - Terms for those who feel like they should have some kind of trauma.
Transdeath - A term for those who feel like they should die, will die, or did die in a certain way.
Transharmful IDs - Transharmful is an umbrella term for those who identify with some view or lifestyle that carries inherent harm, such as violence or bigotry.
Transharmful - Any identity that is inherent harm by nature whether that be physically, verbally, mentally, sexually, neglectfully, or psychologically. This includes transhateful terms.
Transhateful - Transhateful, is a transharmful subcategory meant specifically for those who identify with certain types of bigotry.
Good explaination, dont think id fall under that but sometimes i feel like ive been cannabalized (eaten by humans) in a past life.
anyway thanks!
Oh! You might fall under TransCannibalVictim, like I do!
And you’re welcome!!
Sometimes when I think about how human bodies work, it kinda triggers something and suddenly im trembling uncontrollably, sometimes chills, which is common in PTSD.
I believe in reincarnation, and i have native american/taino dna. There was accounts by Christiopher Columbus that the Carib/Kalinago tribes have participated in cannibalism
i dont know how much truth is in that myth, Colonists tend to make things seem worse than they were, but the Kalinago tribes were enemies of the Taino, so its possible that they ate my distant ancestors due to history alone.
So yeah thats why i suspect i might have been eaten in a past life.
I can understand that!
For me, a lot of my transIDs are coping mechanisms for things I’ve gone through, or things that I wish would have happened to make people take me more seriously as a survivor of horrific abuse. I was tortured for years, but subtly so, to an extent I don’t have a lot of scars from abuse because the torture was mostly physical exertion or sleep deprivation and drinking/drugs throughout my childhood. Even though I went through RAMCOA/OEA, I never feel like it was “severe enough” to be a survivor of such.
Some are designated to my partners, as well, but those are less so.
So I understand having “weird” TransIDs or “weird” past lives, as I was definitely not human in a past life.
Thanks for helping me understand more, and very interesting, sorry that you went through what you have. Best wishes
Thank you! And I’m glad I could help you!
