hey everyone, i’m new to this community (both this site and the larger transid/paraphilia community), i’m working on coming to terms with my experiences, identity and sexuality, but there’s a lot of confusing feelings, uncertainty and self-loathing to work through. i’m feeling a bit lost in general and looking for a friendly, welcoming safe space to discuss and learn. not 100% sure how to describe myself, but

CW: age gap relationships, transage

i am physically an adult male and i am attracted to young teen boys (though not exclusively) - i’m not really sure whether i want to be romantically and/or sexually involved with a boy, or if i want to be a boy… or if it’s a mix of both.

if anyone would like to chat with me to talk things out and help me get to grips with myself and the community, i’d really appreciate that, feel free to drop me a dm or add me on matrix, my username is on my profile

thanks for reading! <3

  • arisu_exe
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    1 year ago

    I’m not sure about other users, but something I’ll say is that you shouldn’t need to CW map and transage stuff. This is a welcoming space for both

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      okay, thanks! just wasn’t sure about the expectations and thought it was better to be safe than risk upsetting someone :D

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    1 year ago

    I’m also new to these spaces for the most part,welcome! I still get anxious about getting on these sorts of sites cause I don’t live alone but ive learned how to mask what I’m doing :)