So apparently “meet/find likeminded people” is a covert phrase people use to find others to trade and distribute CSAM/CSEM to, as in stuff that fails the DOST test. Undercover feds may use it as well.

This is kind of embarassing to admit, but I have used that phrase before, unbeknowst of its connotation. I feel torn about it, because I liked using it. For me it was a way to say “I’m looking for fellow accepting freaks with similar humour, values, etc.” I guess being more specific is more beneficial anyway.

So yea, be careful!

  • FRANK
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    41 year ago

    That is the most vague dogwhistle I have ever heard… Like I feel like that’s a common phrase outside of MAP or Radqueer??? Or am I tripping myself out?

    • A Friendly StrangerOP
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      41 year ago

      Yes, it’s used regularly too. I just thought it might be useful information to be aware of. It’s likely vague on purpose so it goes under the radar.

  • Matt Walsh
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    31 year ago

    Peculiar, of all the dogwhistles I’ve seen I don’t think this was one of them.

    Like you said it has a pretty broad/non-sexual connotation in general so even if you want to use this phrase I don’t think you’d be put on a list or smth.

    • A Friendly StrangerOP
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      31 year ago

      Nah, It’s more meant as a warning when encountering such individuals. And it feels uncomfortable for me to keep using the phrase since discovering this.

  • 🌠star
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    21 year ago

    the fact that you used the phrase without knowing about this connotation means there’s probably lots of people using it in a completely innocuous and innocent way, just like you, so i really wouldn’t worry about it.

    • A Friendly StrangerOP
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      21 year ago

      Yes, but that isn’t my point. I’m trying to bring awareness to the fact that the other meaning exists within paraphilic communities.