Hi!! I’m having a lot of trouble because since it’s pride month, I’ve been browsing the aroace tags on tumblr. But there’s a LOT of discourse and a lot of aros who aren’t romance repulsed seem to be shoved out… and it makes me feel like I’m not aroace enough? Because I love Alastor and my partner sys… Because I’m in a romantic relationship…
I feel really, really bad… And I don’t really know what to do… Would it be bad for me to take TransAroace (or even just transaro) to cope with feeling inadequate for the community?
I’ve been on the verge of tears because of this all day.
I can kind of understand. Weirdly, it’s the opposite for me! I was a very early bloomer in a lot of respects, and I wish I was more normal in that fact. I didn’t find out I was aro until… Less than a year ago! It feels so weird to go through years of being hyperrose and then… turn out to be aroace. It feels like a contradiction!