But like you are still gonna go and get the package so what’s the big deal with doing it when it arrives? You lose nothing by doing it that way. Or if you know you are gonna be busy at a certain time set the delivery at a more appropriate time (now that I think about it is this not a common option?)

I like not having the right of my existence challenged but to each their own

He is many more things aswell

Is he still living with his wife?

Well restructuring all of society takes a lot of work and time and luck. And hey you can contribute to it as well.