Well, back to my commonly asked question ig.

Is there a reliable instance I can join? Oddballs went down, then Tummy, and now Eepy is going down.

While I do like lemmy, I just personally don’t vibe with the reddit style and I prefer social media like fedi.

I don’t know which ones aren’t likely to go down, since it seems like every instance goes down.

I don’t like NNIA, as the owner of it can’t think in nuance and needs to make everything about discourse, which I want to avoid. I also can’t be NSFW on there, so that’s even worse.

I haven’t gotten a response from anyone on Rape.Pet, ans tbh I don’t expect too, since it seems pretty secluded.

I don’t know anything about cottoncandy.cafe, and it seems to be closed to registration.

I like Capyborea.space, but… Some of the content posted there does make me a bit wary (I’m a paranoid individual)…

Filly.love seems to be MLP oriented, but idk how reliable it is…

Is there any space that’s really safe anymore?? Or do I have to run the risk of just… losing a safe space? Is it even worth it at this point to stay on Fedi???

    • Yui KomoriOP
      2·
      3 months ago

      Being entirely honest, and nothing against the owner there, but some of the things shared on cutiegarden make me really nervous. As subjective as the Dost Test is, a lot of content on there is very risky.

      It might be good if you don’t live in the USA, but sadly, I do.

      • Pinkpawn
        1·
        3 months ago

        Yeah I do worry about the opsec of many users on those Mastodon boards… Seems like if you really want that kind of content then you need to be on TOR or i2p

        • Yui KomoriOP
          1·
          3 months ago

          Yeah. I use TOR, but I’m just too paranoid about that shit. Some of them are a little too… Risky, y’know, won’t pass the dost test. Like again, nothing against the owner, I don’t think she lives in the USA, but… It’s not worth the risk to me.