I consider myself generally uninterested in unconsensual kinks, but if I’m understanding biastophilia correctly (often tied to the more specific scenario of kidnapping and molestation, particularly strangers) then I’ve always had a latent draw for that kind of thing.

Reading about serial rapists who kidnap and violate strangers gets my heart racing. I guess the primary draw for me is the eroticism of the traumatic experience, hearing what the victim went through.

It’s never something that I would want to be involved in any capacity irl, but hearing about it never fails to get me at least a little aroused. I guess it’s not unlike some people’s fascination with serial killers, but with more of a direct sexual interest.

Still sort of figuring this out for myself but knowing that this is a thing helps crystalize things in my mind, for better or for worse. Would be curious to hear from others about their experiences and takes on biastophilia.

  • Phossu@burggit.moeOP
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    1 year ago

    I find it fascinating that you require both the victim to enjoy it and also not give their consent. I think I completely understand it though, I’ve always found it a lot more hot when victims get pleasure from stuff like this. Difference is I still find both fully consensual sex and full on rape with no pleasure for the victim hot. It’s all fantasy stuff anyway so it can be anything you want!

    I agree that keeping the victim rather than killing them is hot. Keep them chained up in the basement as a toy. I heard of a real life case of a woman (Kala Brown I believe) being kidnapped and held in a shipping container as a sex slave for a few months. Iirc she managed to convince the criminal that she was into him and cooperated enough to stay alive. Very interesting and fucked up story.

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      1 year ago

      Thank you! Yea the consent part to me just seems like formality. The idea of everyone involved in the fantasy getting together beforehand and agree to everything that will be done seems boring to me, it takes away all the surprise and fear and rawness of the fantasy. Although having the victim beg for more mid-scene would act as some type of consent, but in this case I do find it hot.

      Interesting case! I’ve heard about a similar one, but I forgot the details.