Whoever you want it to be, lol. I personally always take the smashing part very liberally, like I’m either saying yes to smashing or being smashed, otherwise it would be a little too rigid for my taste.
That’s the issue, though: would I rather dominate the Beast, subjugate and tame him? Or would I rather he dominate me, be completely overwhelmed and helpless to his whims? They’re both very sexy to me, and I don’t know which I prefer.
Whoever you want it to be, lol. I personally always take the smashing part very liberally, like I’m either saying yes to smashing or being smashed, otherwise it would be a little too rigid for my taste.
That’s the issue, though: would I rather dominate the Beast, subjugate and tame him? Or would I rather he dominate me, be completely overwhelmed and helpless to his whims? They’re both very sexy to me, and I don’t know which I prefer.
Ah!! Sorry I took the question too literally I guess. The conundrum is understandable.